About
Phil Calcese
Night Stalker. Author. Speaker. Father.
"You can't control when they come home. You can control who they find when they do."
Phil Calcese spent 22 years as a special operations pilot with the 160th Night Stalkers. Nineteen deployments. A Purple Heart.
The hardest battle came after he came home: parental alienation and family court after a PTSD label. He writes and speaks so other dads don't walk it alone.
He's an ultramarathon runner and a speaker. Author of Erased But Not Forgotten and The Father They Find (Veterans Day, November 11, 2026). Link live when available.
He lives in Tennessee with his wife and dogs.
